“MINE!” We’ve all been around the siblings fighting over the last piece of cake. In fact, we’ve been those kids. It doesn’t take long to realize that generosity and “sharing” have to be taught. Eventually we grow up a bit, realize the world doesn’t revolve around us, and begin to value the ability to live generously. Parents play a crucial role in shaping their children’s worldview, and one of the most important things they can do is help their kids cultivate generous and compassionate hearts. Aside from benefiting others, generosity also improves and develops social skills and raises self-esteem in children.
Although poverty exists in the U.S., it may be rare for most American children to encounter it. Therefore, it’s important to be intentional about teaching children about poverty and different social issues, because forcing children to give money away without addressing the deeper reason of why won’t change them or their hearts. Here are some ideas:
Your children likely watch your every move, taking cues on what to say and how to act. Your example is powerful and shapes who your children become. I was blessed with parents who were wise with their money, enabling them to be generous. I grew up seeing pictures of children from around the world on my refrigerator, kids my family sponsored through World Vision. I saw their faces every day, learned their names, prayed for them, and felt personally connected to them.
My parents made generosity a priority and included my brother and I in their giving. Because of that, I am now a compassionate and generous person. Generous hearts are developed through the influence of parents who teach their children that everything they have is a blessing, and therefore, they have a responsibility to bless others, because “to whom much is given, much is required.”
Decide as a family what cause or charity to focus on. You can identify just one, or you can let each child, especially if they are older, pick their own cause. For example, if your child loves reading, they may want to donate to the public library.
When looking for a charity to support, there are endless options! Do your research and find a charity that shares your values and that you feel confident donating to. Picking a local charity is awesome because you can visit and volunteer; picking a global charity is an opportunity for your children to learn about another country and culture.
After opening their eyes to different issues and picking a cause, get your kids as involved as possible. We learn best by doing, and there are limitless, creative ways to get children engaged with giving! Here are some ways to get started: